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Can Polygamous Sexual Acts be Permitted if Everyone Consents? Answering a Reader
Is “swinging” compatible with Catholic marriage if both spouses consent? This article explains why Catholic teaching views sexual activity with anyone outside one’s spouse as adulterous, and how the Church’s understanding of monogamy, fidelity, and the sacramental meaning of marriage rules out sharing marital intimacy with third parties.
Adultery Without an Affair? The Sin of Mental Adultery
What does it really mean to commit adultery in the heart? This article offers deeper Catholic clarity on mental adultery, explaining when lustful thoughts or sexual fantasies become sinful and how spouses can better understand the call to purity, fidelity, and marital love.
Can Intimacy Be Restored After Infidelity? A Catholic Path Forward
Infidelity can feel like the end of a marriage, whether it involves pornography, emotional attachment, or a physical affair. Many couples find themselves stuck in cycles of blame, shame, and distance, unsure if true intimacy is even possible again. The answer is yes, but only if both spouses are willing to confront hard truths. If you are willing to move beyond the pain and do the work, restoration is possible.
The Harmful Relational Effects of Withholding Sex in Marriage
In coaching, it’s not uncommon to hear a spouse (often the wife) say, “I won’t be intimate until we emotionally connect,” or “I don’t feel close enough for sex.” While emotional connection is crucial in marriage, using sex as leverage can be profoundly damaging. This article explores the positive role of marital intimacy, the risks of withholding it, and how couples can break harmful patterns to restore their relationship within Catholic values.