For Faithful & Fulfilling Romance

Painful intercourse is a common but often misunderstood difficulty among married couples, particularly newlyweds. Join James Boyd Walther, Marriage and Family Therapy Intern and Certified Sexologist, for an informative webinar exploring the physical and psychological causes of painful sex, including dyspareunia, vaginismus, and related sexual difficulties. We'll discuss common contributing factors, the impact of sexual shame and trauma, and practical treatment options that help couples overcome these challenges while remaining faithful to Catholic teaching. The webinar will conclude with an opportunity for questions and answers.

This article examines Fr. Ripperger’s claims about marital chastity in light of St. Alphonsus Liguori, St. Thomas Aquinas, and traditional Catholic moral theology. It challenges several of his interpretations of marital intimacy, distinguishing binding moral obligations from disputed theological opinions. It also addresses the pastoral consequences of excessive rigor, particularly the risk of deepening scrupulosity among married Catholics seeking to live their faith.

Why can’t a sexual intimacy coach simply tell you what to try in an email? James Walther explains why some difficulties require sustained, individualized guidance and how coaching fees support that work. He also shares free articles and guides that give couples practical places to start. When a quick answer isn’t enough, it isn’t about gatekeeping; it’s about providing the help your situation needs.

“Did I orgasm?” is a common question, and understanding the physical signs and sensations can help you recognize your own experience. Orgasms vary in intensity, but identifying one raises another important question: “Am I satisfied?” Your pleasure and orgasm matter just as much as your husband’s, and recurring uncertainty or dissatisfaction deserves attention. Learn what research tells us about female orgasm and how coaching can help you pursue greater pleasure, confidence, and satisfaction in your marriage.

Is “swinging” compatible with Catholic marriage if both spouses consent? This article explains why Catholic teaching views sexual activity with anyone outside one’s spouse as adulterous, and how the Church’s understanding of monogamy, fidelity, and the sacramental meaning of marriage rules out sharing marital intimacy with third parties.

Does the Catholic marital debt extend beyond the conjugal act to foreplay or other incomplete sexual acts? Drawing on traditional moral theologians such as St. Alphonsus, Sanchez, and Ballerini, this article explains what spouses may reasonably owe one another in the exercise of marital rights and where the limits lie.

Are sexual fantasies or roleplaying between Catholic spouses morally permissible? Drawing on the traditional consensus of Catholic moral theologians, this article explains when fantasies about one’s spouse remain within the bounds of marital chastity, and when they cross into morally problematic territory.

Pain during sex (dyspareunia), involuntary tightening with penetration (vaginismus), and sexual anxiety can leave a woman longing for closeness while dreading intimacy. These experiences are real, and improvement can begin with patient, practical steps toward comfort and confidence. Our Women’s Sexual Pain & Anxiety Coaching Program gives women and their husbands more time to address pain and fear before focusing on pleasure. Read about the program, and submit a coaching inquiry if you would like to explore whether it is right for you.