For Faithful & Fulfilling Romance

Can Catholic spouses engage in penetration without ejaculation, or deliberately seek a second orgasm outside the conjugal act? This article answers two reader questions by applying traditional Catholic moral theology to male orgasm outside intercourse and to amplexus reservatus, or incomplete intercourse without ejaculation.

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Painful intercourse is a common but often misunderstood difficulty among married couples, particularly newlyweds. Join James Boyd Walther, Marriage and Family Therapy Intern and Certified Sexologist, for an informative webinar exploring the physical and psychological causes of painful sex, including dyspareunia, vaginismus, and related sexual difficulties. We'll discuss common contributing factors, the impact of sexual shame and trauma, and practical treatment options that help couples overcome these challenges while remaining faithful to Catholic teaching. The webinar will conclude with an opportunity for questions and answers.

This article examines Fr. Ripperger’s claims about marital chastity in light of St. Alphonsus Liguori, St. Thomas Aquinas, and traditional Catholic moral theology. It challenges several of his interpretations of marital intimacy, distinguishing binding moral obligations from disputed theological opinions. It also addresses the pastoral consequences of excessive rigor, particularly the risk of deepening scrupulosity among married Catholics seeking to live their faith.

Why can’t a sexual intimacy coach simply tell you what to try in an email? James Walther explains why some difficulties require sustained, individualized guidance and how coaching fees support that work. He also shares free articles and guides that give couples practical places to start. When a quick answer isn’t enough, it isn’t about gatekeeping; it’s about providing the help your situation needs.