Many couples unknowingly structure intimacy around the husband’s arousal timeline, leaving wives frustrated, disconnected, or unsatisfied. In this article, we explore Dr. Ian Kerner’s “She Comes First” framework and explain why prioritizing a wife’s pleasure and orgasm can strengthen emotional intimacy, marital satisfaction, and sexual confidence for both spouses. We also discuss the importance of clitoral stimulation, practical techniques couples can try, and how tools like vulvar vibration therapy and medical-grade vibrators may help couples struggling with orgasm difficulties. Most importantly, we frame this approach not merely as a technique, but as a meaningful expression of love, attentiveness, and mutual self-gift within Catholic marriage.