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Why Porn Doesn’t Make You a Better Lover
Many people assume that watching porn will make them a better lover, but the opposite is often true. Porn is designed for visual performance, not mutual pleasure, and it trains habits that undermine real intimacy in marriage. What actually leads to satisfying, meaningful sex is not imitation, but attentiveness, connection, and love. When couples let go of porn-influenced expectations, they often discover a deeper and more fulfilling experience of intimacy. There is a better way forward, rooted in God’s design for marriage.
Good Isn’t the Goal: Why Your Marriage Needs Intentional Growth
Many marriages settle into a place that feels “good,” but good is not the goal. Without intentional effort, even stable relationships can slowly drift into complacency. Growth in marriage does not require major changes, just small, consistent choices to prioritize connection and pursuit. This article invites couples to move from autopilot to intentional love, building something deeper over time.
Defining Intimacy: Aquinas, Psychology, and the Fourfold Intimacy Model
Intimacy is often reduced to sex or feelings, but marriage demands something deeper. Drawing on Aristotle, Aquinas, and modern psychology, James Walther explains the Fourfold Intimacy Model — spiritual, intellectual, emotional, and physical — showing how true intimacy is an interpersonal state of secure vulnerability that engages the whole person.